Subj : Re: This Train Just Went Splat! To : alt.tv.er From : npardue Date : Sun Sep 25 2005 15:59:31 From Newsgroup: alt.tv.er don't believe in letting babies sleep in with adults. We had a friend of ours roll over on their infant daughter (few weeks old) and kill her. They are still crazed about what happened. Cribs were invented for a reason. If an older child or toddler has a bad dream that is one thing but bringing a small baby into a bed with an adult is dangerous. That's actually extremely rare. Unless the parents are drunk/on drugs or uncommonly heavy sleepers, they tend to 'know' in their sleep where the child is. What happened with your friends is tragic, but cribs are no guarantee that tragedies won't happen ... they just tend to replace one tiny risk with another. (SIDS is almost unhead of in co-sleeping families.) Naomi .