Subj : Re: Um...no comment?
To   : Mrproper
From : Asylem Kat
Date : Tue Sep 20 2005 01:24 am

  Re: Re: Um...no comment?
  By: Mrproper to Asylem Kat on Mon Sep 19 2005 01:16 pm

 >  > Actually that's not true in my case. My mother was always around, being a
 >  > housewife and mother first and foremost. She was with me all the time tea
 >  > me (I was reading at a second grade level before I entered kindergarden) 
 >  > playing with me (I had no sibling until I was 6 and no neighborhood child
 >  > play with so actually she was my only playmate).
 >  >
 > 
 > Should have had at least a couple friends when you were a child, that may ha
 > been a contributing factor.

I'm thinking so as well.. I believe that by having my mother (an adult) as more
my friend I started considering her as my peer, thus as I got older I grew to
see all adults as peers rather than superiors. This changed how I would adress
people and since I spoke my mind so freely and considered my opinions as
important and valid as theirs (if not more so), they reacted to me in a
negitive fashion. Plus I was a smart child and had no qualms about correcting
an adult if they were wrong (I admit I was a bit of a know-it-all), and no one
likes to be shown up in such a "dissrespectful manner" especially by a child. 

Besides this, my mother was very strict in what I was allowed to do. I was very
sheltered but I obeyed without question for the majority of the time. That is
until I reached my early teens and my way of breaking free from her and her
rules was much more drastic than a normal child's. And considering I had
behaved so well until that point, my extreme actions came as a shock to my
mother who took extreme actions of her own. Thus things escalated to the point
where neither one of us knew how to deal or even relate to the other. Things
spiraled so out of control that even today grudges are still being held and
tension is very high between us. We cannot hold a normal conversation and
usally before ten minutes has elapsed, we've gotten into a shouting match and
someone hangs up on the other. It's difficult to even try any longer. She
stills sees me as a beligerent child and I see her as the controling parent.
It's a shame that neither one of us can get past this. Perhaps some day we
shall.

Asylem Kat

Cute -- BUT WRONG!!


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