X-Google-Language: ENGLISH,ASCII-7-bit X-Google-Thread: f996b,b4a9e61e9696d20 X-Google-Attributes: gidf996b,public X-Google-ArrivalTime: 2003-02-03 18:56:58 PST Path: archiver1.google.com!news1.google.com!newsfeed.stanford.edu!nntp.cs.ubc.ca!nntp-relay.ihug.net!ihug.co.nz!west.cox.net!cox.net!nntp2.aus1.giganews.com!nntp.giganews.com!nntp3.aus1.giganews.com!nntp.texas.net!news.texas.net.POSTED!not-for-mail NNTP-Posting-Date: Mon, 03 Feb 2003 20:56:55 -0600 Message-ID: <3E3F2C08.6020502@texas.net> Date: Mon, 03 Feb 2003 20:57:12 -0600 From: Gerald Clough Reply-To: clough@texas.net Organization: Liver Donors, Ltd. User-Agent: Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.0.1) Gecko/20020823 Netscape/7.0 X-Accept-Language: en-us, en MIME-Version: 1.0 Newsgroups: alt.ascii-art Subject: Re: She left me and I could do anything for her happiness... References: <5an53vk2cgpj3tcnab7riskkd4dmdj6kce@4ax.com> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii; format=flowed Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit Lines: 61 X-Trace: sv3-qj11zIihGIsjKHF34u0t1HiEXTXyOOD0tfOKtOq/SUjqTqPOL3JekpytbyGTzDQV2DPAX5fPwYWrZPc!TIgjVarLa+NmpJKZNbZuZgmgF1igfJIHTJtvmVZu2IuiBgmibFbHojjqbPg= X-Complaints-To: abuse@texas.net X-DMCA-Complaints-To: abuse@texas.net X-Abuse-and-DMCA-Info: Please be sure to forward a copy of ALL headers X-Abuse-and-DMCA-Info: Otherwise we will be unable to process your complaint properly X-Postfilter: 1.1 Xref: archiver1.google.com alt.ascii-art:21706 bug wrote: > On Mon, 3 Feb 2003 14:22:38 -0000, "semach.the.monkey" > wrote: > > >>| >Its nice to be alive :) >>| >>| Not anymore... :((( >>| > > >>This is one of the saddest posts I've read in a long time. It is sad >>because I know exactly how you feel. I've been there myself recently. >> >>This is probably the point where I should write something encouraging, >>and tell you how things will get better... >> >>Hmmm... well I hope so. > > > It won't be better... You know, being with her was like touching a > heaven 24/7... She was completly oposite to the girls I've been ever > since, she was a... She was a perfect goddess. And I'm not talking > only about her presence... I mean... That the 6 months I spend with > her was the best time in my live ever. And I am sure I will never fell > this again with another woman. As a matter of fact I don't wan't to. > There is noone who can be compared to her... :((( I love her so much I > could do everything for her... I was doing everything for her, and > now... Now I'm alone and she says that this is better for us both even > though be both suffer... I love her and cannot stand the pain of being > without her and she suffers cause she knows she gave that pain to > me... :((( Damn! I really, really LOVE her! > > b. > > Here's the truth. Even if you don't buy it, think about it until you at least see the point. It very, very likely *will* get better. If it doesn't get better, then she definitely was right. She sounds like quite a courageous woman. She's trying to do something good for you, even though it was painful for her, and she had to do it for herself. What you do with that opportunity is up to you. She's done her bit. See if you can come to a personal understnading of my sig line below. I could give you my run-down on it, but it's better if you work it out for yourself. Here's a hint: You say you can't be happy without her. That's demanding too much of her. Only when you can be happy alone are you fit to be with another. -- Gerald Clough clough@texas.net "Nothing has any value unless you know you can give it up."